FREE ESSAY ON GENDER AND SEXUALITY

GENDER AND SEXUALITY

SBS 201
Gender and Sexuality in Arab and Western Society
Ramzi M. Bibi
2000-07173
8 December 2000
Gender & sexuality is an important issue that differs from one country to another, two
regions that are very distinct and general are the Arab world and the Western World. Both
these regions are heavily populated and both these areas have totally different views
concerning gender & sexuality. The Western view towards sexuality is normally considered
a more liberal approach, where as the Arab world's view in most of its related states is
a conservative approach that is often implemented by force. The Arab & Western cultures
are extremely diverse in their methods and their religious beliefs. Therefore sexuality
is viewed differently in both regions and that's why these two regions should be
discussed and compared in a sociological study. Sex that refers to the biological
differences between men & women is different than gender, which is the psychological
difference between males & females therefore referring to the extremes of Arab & Western
society.
Sexual relations in Middle Eastern societies have historically articulated dominant and
subordinate social positions, adult men on the higher social status, women, boys, and
slaves on lower social positions. The distinction made by modern western sexuality
between sexual and gender identity, between kinds of sexual degrees of masculinity and
family, have until now had little affect on the Middle East. The Middle East as a whole
doesn't recognize the complex realities of multiple and changing positions of sexuality
and identity.
A recent study of family politics in Cairo says that sound taboos and the silent
neglection to sexual behavior show some space for discussion. People keep incidents of
homosexuality and premarital sex or adultery hidden away from society in order to protect
their social backgrounds and to sustain their so-called family values in addition they
indulge in episodes of sexual violence such as honor crimes and "gay bashing". These
crimes and perspectives don't exist in westernized society where a person almost has
their free will to practice their sexuality according to his own personal preference
without being abused, but generally all sexual outcasts in the world are criticized
negatively to some extent.
Islamic societies have tolerated prostitution and consider it regulated, as do their
Christian counterparts, and have recently been more tolerant to same sex sexual
practices. The Western view towards sexual behavior has been Christian, which has been
prevalent for nearly 2000 years. The Christian church look to sex as a need for
reproduction and everything else is suspect. In the 19th Century, religious assumptions
about sex became medieval ones as the people presumed that sex unconnected to
reproduction could be harmful. As time moved on so did the western world and its
communications to medical studies which evolved into the most liberal and open-minded
view towards sex and homosexuality alike. The western expressions of their sexuality
through entertainment (pornographic movies, plays and sexual expression) show their
tolerant attitude within the past 30 years. 
Islam is the general Arab religion which recognizes both men and women as both having
sexual drives and rights to sexual fulfillment and heterosexual relations within
marriage. All other sexual behavior is considered unacceptable. Like the Greeks and
Romans before them the Arabs have 'a general importance of male dominance the centrality
of penetration to conception of sex and the radical disjunction of active and passive
roles in male homosexuality'. Everett Rowson has found this sexual viewpoint 'broadly
representative of Middle Eastern societies from the 9th Century to the present'. This is
not necessarily saying that the Arab Muslim world have not witnessed an unchanging
historical experience but more to show the continuity of these ideas. 
Whether the 7th Century message of the Qur'an undermined or improved the position of
women is debatable. It is more logical to agree that in past centuries Muslim males
adopted the cultural practices of Byzantines and Sasanians, it gives out a message that
the seclusion of women to reserve public and political life for men. This distinguishes
the two sexes as opposites: Men as rational and capable, women as emotional and lacking,
specifically of their sexual drives. Female sexuality when uncontrolled could result in a
social problem (Fitna) and therefore reward males control of women's bodies. 
Rowson explains relation between gender roles and sexual roles in medieval societies by
locating them in public and private areas. Adult men dominated their women and slaves in
private contrast to the larger public. Men who publicly act as women gave up their right
to male dominance. 'They lost their respectability as men but could be tolerated and even
valued as entertainers (poets, musicians dancers and singers)'. A modern and Lebanese
example is 'Mosbah', who is a frequent dancer at 'Amori Libertad, he is very well valued
as an entertainer and has been for the past couple of years. In the Western world we can
see a huge number of homosexual creativity within a certain city spectrum. New types of
explicit sexuality seem to always blossom from Western countries. Sydney, Australia,
which was the gay capital of the world, experienced serious competition from a vast group
of homosexuals in San Francisco, therefore here we find the new gay capital of the world,
with the emergence of gimps, which are often homosexual sex slaves with no purpose. San
Francisco is now the proud innovator of the most recent creative homosexual expressions.
Children learn at a very early age what it means to be a boy or a girl in our society.
With all the gender stereotypes and biases, it is no wonder how sex segregation exists.
During childhood, children are exposed to many factors, which influence their attitudes
and behaviors regarding gender roles. These attitudes are learned in the home, in the
school, and even in the playground where children play among their peers. From the time
they are born, children have already been assigned a gender. Blue blankets are used for
baby boys, and pink ones for girls. It is difficult for a child to grow up without
experiencing some form of gender bias or stereotype. When children play, they avoid
playing with the opposite sex, because they prefer the company of there own kind. The
result is self-imposed segregation between boys and girls. Research has been done on this
phenomenon, some sociologists say sex differences are biologically determined and some
believe they are socially constructive. Children behave accordingly to their gender roles
as early as two years old. From pre-school to middle school it is obvious that children
live in two separate worlds that are Girls and Boys. 
From the beginning of time we have all been different, but men and women alike are joined
by a biological attraction that eventually results in sex. Yes, sex is often the word of
the day in most parts of the world. In the 20th Century we related sex to love, if this
is right or wrong it is up to every individual but societies and cultures have tried to
involve themselves in the sexual behavior and religious perception of sex. This raised
many eyebrows for people that wish to venture outside of their culture in some areas to
see other people's different views. The huge difference in cultural diversity between
Arab societies and Western communities are vast and extreme at times and places alike.
Men who are physically stronger and more capable than women often played the hunting or
providing role in the old days and the women would do the household chores. These days
there is a difference but we still can see history repeating itself in modern
civilization. The man goes to work and the woman takes care of the house and the
children. All these aspects of gender and sexuality have a reason for them being this
way, the world is a big place therefore peoples many differences have to be respected and
viewed from a sociological perspective.
'Everyone does gender without thinking about it' (Judith Lorber, Paradoxes of Gender, pp
13). The differences in gender are something we live with every day, we all at one point
or another 'do gender'. When a female in a respectable community in western society is
asked to act as a lady, she is expected to act accordingly with good manners as a woman.
The same is expected for an Arab female but it differs on a conservative level, and she
is typically expected to be in a state of domination by her husband. 
Women who step out of their Muslim Arab background face such sociological problems as
mentioned in Janan Ghazal Read's article, 'To veil or not to veil'. Reed explains that
the expanded social opportunities for women in Western industrialized countries, scholars
have turned their attention to the status of women in other parts of the world. This has
given rise to a debate concerning the social standing of Muslim women in the Middle East.
Many researchers have noted that the traditional and gendered customs presented by Islam,
can be harmful for women's status in the workplace predominantly because of their
veiling. This controversial study compared the general attitudes of veiled and unveiled
women. The study was largely based on survey data collected from women living in the
Middle East. This demonstrates that while veiled women are conservative they seem to
support women's rights in public life and most of them strive for marital equality.
Although populations of Muslim Americans vary (ranging from 5 to 8 million) it is one of
the fastest growing religions that can mix these different cultures in relation to gender
and sexuality. 
In many parts of the world women represent nearly half of the labor market; despite this
more haven't experienced a rise in social status. Women have made little progress in
being recognized for their contributions to society. This is because of the strong hold
of male dominance almost everywhere in the world. Researchers have tried to see the
relationship between status and economic behavior and it seems that nothing concrete is
showing the grounds for improving female status. 
In conclusion, men and women are of opposing sexes but their differences have been made
this way to homogeneously complete each other. Obviously no area has a perfectly
constructed social system that treats genders exactly the same. Of course there are areas
that are better than others but none are perfect. The two different regions that have
been discussed in this paper are both unique in their own way. The Arab world is a
heavily cultured society that has historically always had a huge effect on science,
understanding and religion. The firm Islamic base that the Arabs have maintained affects
their sexual preferences and ideologies therefore causing a somewhat conservative
environment. The western world flourishes with its multi-dimensional approach to sexual
practices that opens up a liberal door to their people. Freedom of expression is a norm
in most westernized societies; some Arab countries have sought to become more westernized
and some are being heavily influenced by the West. Despite the differences and recent
conflicts between the Arabs and the West, men and women from both regions should feed off
each other in order to be more productive in the big picture. Simply because we, 'live in
one sweet world and around the stars we are spinning' (Dave Matthews, One Sweet World).
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